Rakim was SICK!!!

NO, for real, the 18th letter had the flu but still graced us Baltimorons with his presence. The opening acts had way more enery and kept the crowd hype.( It was OGUN and this dude naamed Salim, This was another one of those shows were only the real hip hop heads were out. Remember earlier when he didnt show up with Ghost. He apologized and promised us we were in for a treat. When you really think about it how much energy could a mellow smooth brother thats laid back such as the "R" bring?

It was a great trip down memory lane. I usually never sing along with MC's but this was Rakim Allah. He started off the hit, "I came in the door...." the crowd finished the rest of the song. What more could an MC want. At one point he sat down and asked us what song we wanted to hear. The crowd answered with at least 10 different songs from Mahoganoy to Eric B for President to Juice to Let the Rhythm Hit'em.

Rakim has some new material and thats when I remembered how much I cant stand the Sonars sound system (Shut up JO) and to be totally honest, I wasnt interested in hearing any new material from arguably one of the greatest to ever do it. You need a nice quiet corner of the world to really appreciate Rakim lyrics for the first time. OK ima get those links up for the other MC's tonight.

I was gone for a minute but now Im back with the Jump Off !!

Whats going on peops. Havent been on in a minute with work and all. Instead of being the moocher I decided to hook up the dinner this year for the fam. How hard could it be to slap a turkey in the oven and have a few sides for the fam right? Well, I had no friggin idea what I was getting myself into. Had to clean the crib, buy all the food and then cook it. I have vegetarian cousins, I have family members who dont like family members. I have old and not so old family members who still consider me to be the little scootermonk from like 25 years ago. I have family members who drink like we are still in prohabition.(sp) I have family members who have ex's that other family members dont like but dont get the hint and still come through anyway. My family is brutal when it comes to cracking jokes and if you show one sign of sensitivity about anything then its on and popping. They thrive on signs of weakness and pounce like that tiger in San Fransico. (my bad that was mean)All that to say when your the host you have to carefully orchestrate the whole shing-ding. I have much more respect for my aunts and uncles who pulled it off without a hitch all those years before. In the end all was well. We even ended up doing all the line dances known to man and I think everbody had a goodtime. I wont find out until next year how good I did. The plus is after all was said and done I have lefover food for a year and enough liquor for whoevers New Years party get graced with my presence. Good looking to my little sister for the collard greens and Ma- Dukes for the rolls.

P.S. I situated my computer at work for optimal privavcy so im back in EFFECT (in your best Rakim voice) Peace to my girl Shae-Shae.

Knee-Gro Pahleese!!

1. boughie
a stuck up person who thinks they're better than others

I dont know what's wit Laquesha. ever since she got a new boyfriend, she started actin all boughie.

2. boughie

High Class; acting rich or used to the finer things life has to offer

That hoe needs to stop actin boughie everybody knows she frontin.

Abbreviation for boughetto; derived from the terms bourgeois and ghetto: middle class ghetto

Darrell keeps his Ipod in a Crown Royal Bag; he is boughie as hell.

adjective
boughie

Boughie comes from the word bourgeois. Bourgeois is "Preoccupied with respectability and material values" according to Webster's College II dictionary. The term refers to a social group in Marxist theory opposed to the proletariat (the poor common people) in the class struggle. A boughie person acts as if they are a part of the ruling class, rich, even if they aren't. In other words: stuck up, too good for something, materialistic. Well you can stop acting boughie, asking for sushi

This word is so funny and most of the people who Ive asked for the definition say black people who forget where they came from or black people who think they are better then other people. KNEE-GRO PAHLEESE - My mom is boughie because she wouldnt let me play over at Spiceberry apartments with my school friends. Was she looking down on them or maybe looking out for her sons safety? ( Any kid knows you have more fun plying in the Jects) Maybe I am boughie because I used to hang on the corner and drink 40's with my boys Tone, TJ Aub and Ro-Ro, but now I chill in the living room and drink Carona's by the caseload while watching SVU or smackin up my son and anybody else in Wii bowling. My father called me boughie because I passed on some fried chicken. Well dad, remember when the Dr. said no more fried foods after you had that heart-attack. Remember that? It would seem that this word has no true definition but more a perception of what you or someone else thinks of you.

Ive Never Seen A Man Cry Until Ive Seen A Man Die

The funny thing about blogging is that it consumes your whole 8 hour work day. I have so much to do when I get off work, when does my friggin boss expect me to blog?

I was hurt by this news on several levels.(these levels arent in any particular order) One being the fact that I am a avid redskins fan and he was a hard-hitting MO-FO. Second is the fact that he leaves behind a new family. Thirdly is the fact that this is another blackman lost to nonsence. I myself being a blackman have lost several friends and relatives to nonsence. I hate to admit it but I automatically assumed this was another case of black on black crime. They dont have any witnesses or clues for that matter so why would I think such a thing? Have I been systematically programmed by..."The Man" Ive been in a daze for the last few couple of days thinking to much. Ive been enjoying reading other blogs. You guys keep me on point. Its Friday night and im on my way to an old head party to re-invigorate my soul. Ill finish this later its almost 5 O'clock.

202AM - Back from the old head party. It did the trick in getting me back to my regular self. I love to listen to older folks, they have alot of knowledge, I was told Im to young to have such deep thoughts, I need to take a deep breath and let some of the weight of the world off my shoulders and sip my Remy a tad bit slower to appreciate the taste. Life is way to short. Tipsy old folks have tons of advice. They knew off the break the killers were black. I attempted to throw the "your generalizing" curveball which they immediatley knock out of the park. I think the general consensus was that I need to live and learn a little more. As they cracked jokes and reminisced about how they used to be just like me, I stubbornly told them that times have changed and its not how it used to be WAY back in the day. I was sent to the store for ice and cigerettes. I guess the more things change the more they stay the same.

P.S. Not one but two lazy eyes?

Am I one of those people???

I asked one of my good friends what I should blog about today and she said I should write about mooching family members who come over to eat your food and drink all your alcohol and dont even think to contribute. I was like yeah, those are a lazy, irresponsible,dis-respectfull group of people. Then when I thought about it, Am one of those people? Im going to my mothers house for dinner. I might bring a 12 pack of Yuenglings but mom dosent drink, then Im going to my pops house probably with same said 12 pack. My father strickly drinks dark liquor , no beer. After I leave both houses you know I have commandeered enough food to last me a month. My last stop is one of my best friends house with by now a 3 pack, he has a wet bar complete with a keg-a-rator full of Heineken. I wonder if she was talking about me? Probably not...right?

Thats my man to the end

This here is my man fiddy. We grew up together since before this picture. We have always been close, but as time went on we choose seperate paths, mine was the school route and his was the street one. We always keep in contact but our values and beliefs somewhere along the way changed. I remember one time in 7th grade, he skipped school with the "bad crowd", they waited for the bell to ring and then jetted across the street into the woods. I was supposed to go but of course I was a straight up shook one.(plus Mark Turner was there!) All through high school my man was definatley on some other level. Our friends became different but for some reason he and I still remained tight. The first time he got arrested, it was in the paper, he was caught in a stolen car. The second time was for drugs. My mother always would say your judged by the company you keep, but being true to my cancerian ways Im very loyal to my friends. Of course now he wasnt allowed over to my house anymore and we werent supposed to hang-out. When it was time for me to go away to college, he already had his own place and a new Maxima ( the old skool square one) I used to hangout at his place the summer before I left. I didnt want to go away to school but you guys already know Ma-dukes wasnt having it. Enough babbling, not even sure where im going with this one. I wonder what one set of events or occurences happened in either one of our lives to make us turn out so differently. My man has been in jail for a couple years now and we still stay in contact. It could has so easily been him in my shoes and me in his.

Ghost RA and Scootermonk!!

Tonight is the night like Betty White. Im on my way to see RAKIM! I did all my chores, everything wifey asked for, It was no problem, I painted the kitchen, I cleaned my closet (no pun intended) I raked the leaves, took shorty to get a haircut washed the dishes, vacuumed, dusted, cooked dinner went to the mall for 6 friigin hours....no sweat. My boy Roy is on his way over to pre-game. I got a case of Yuengling's and some Remy. You gotta get your head right,right? Ive been waiting for this moment for a while. Ive never seen Rakim live. Rakim of Eric B. and Rakim. I think I know ever lyric this dude ever wrote. Ive been waiting for this moment for years. My #1 and #2 are KRS and The R. Ive seen KRS several times. Ive seen EPMD, Ive seen Tribe and Dela. I remember exactly where I was when I heard both Biggie and Tu-Pac were killed. Im a hip-hop head and can debate with the best of them even though I grew up in the Burg. The tickets are 35 beans. The crew was like that a tad bit step!! I was like thats it? to see one of the ledgends. One of the pioneers who paved the way for 125 dollar Jigga? HEY Abdul - can I get a Rakim song on your show. OK im Audi 5000 G's. Ill hit you back and tell how great the show was

Rakim was a no-show, After Ghostface gave up a great show, The club Sonar hit us with the old "Rakim is stuck in traffic on 95 but will be here in 20 minutes" trick. Well 45 minutes and 5 brews later we got hit with the enevitable news that The R will not be making it but if we all come back on Dec.28th he will give us a special show. I guess I can wait. I still stay true to hip-hop. There have been a few rough spots but through-out our relationship, the good out weighs the bad. Sometimes when Hip-Hop is pissing me off I remineise, check out this Blog from Shae-Shae

Buckwheat was the coolest Lil Rascal

href="http://www.wdsu.com/news/14573933/detail.html">http://www.wdsu.com/news/14573933/detail.html

When I first started this blog, I promised myself it would be about just random stuff and not all one-sided. What better way to express myself and not have to get any flak about my views, I can read your comments and leave it at that. Whether they are good or bad comments, im just geeking off the fact that someone is reading my stuff. OK now that we have that all cleared up, it seems like I could dedicate my whole blog to stupid thing people say and do. Im being politically correct by saying people. Im actually getting tired of certain people thinking they can just say anything and its cool. The dude Dog thought he was black because he grew up rough in a bad neighborhood? WTF. This chick Carla Dartez apparently didnt see anything wrong with calling a black lady Buckwheat? Even from one black person to another this is considered a diss. I was in Elementary school several,several,several years ago and that was one of the first cracks I received from this kid named Mark Turner on a cold rainy Wednesday right after lunch on our way to Social Studies and he was blacker than me!

Are Dog and Carla apologizing because they see the error of their ways or because they got caught? The only reason Mark Turner apologized was because Ms. Slade overheard him.

G-Burgs most wanted

Ive been getting so much feedback on the talking "white" blog that it opened up another can of worms. Not only do I apperantly talk "white" but since I grew up in the "burbs" I dont have the authority to speak on the state of Hip Hop or the plight of the blackman or wear Timboes or even bump my music at loud decibels....all of which I do on a regular.

I used to get sucked in that trap of trying to justify my blackness, but I guess being older and wiser now I realize that my life was so good growing up because ma-dukes wasnt havin it. I grew up in the burbs because mom made sure I grew up in the burbs.

Black or White?

www.cnn.com/2007/US/11/06/missing.woman/index.html?iref=mpstoryview


OK - I hate when people pull the race card and some of my best friends are white so that means Im not racist!(right?) When I was reading this article I couldnt help but think this guy is guilty as hell. This is coming from scootermonk who honestly believes that OJ is innocent. I wanted to see what this guy looked like partly because Im nosey and partly because I wanted to see what color he is. Imagine my surprise when I couldnt find one single picture? HMMMMM? What color do we think he is?



http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/11/09/missing.wife.ap/index.html

I would love to say I told you so but everyone already knew this outcome. right?

No I dont have my law degree and the only bar I passed is the one on Fairmont Ave. (because they have crazy hours) but this dude is oh so guilty.

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/law/11/13/missing.wife.ap/index.html

My mother always told me to tell the truth, but my boys always told me to deny till you die if questioned...always stick to your story!

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/law/11/14/missing.wife.ap/index.html

My degree from Special Victims Units University tells me this dude is innocent

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/11/28/missing.wife.ap/index.html

Im so Hood!!

Quick Friday afternoon blog....

I got accused of talking "White" by one of my boys last night. At first I brushed him off like "whatever dude", then I asked him what exactly is "talking white?" Does he mean because I speak correctly? Does he mean because I know how to put my words together or because I dont use the word "be" every chance I get? I remember how my mother, father, aunt, uncle, grandmother and grandfather use to correct me all the time. I can talk slang with the best of them but even then I speak it correctly. My boy said he speaks correctly at work but on the weekends and when he's hanging with the "fellas" he can relax and speak however he feels? Call me crazy but when your home on the weekend (with the kids) isnt this is the time you should really be on your correct speaking game.

OK - so ima bout to hit up the brew spot then bounce to the cribo. Ill holla atchoo cats latah. peace Dawgs!

J.M.J - E.P.M.D and Jigga Man

I had a couple things to talk about today and they all happened to be Hip-Hop related,I decided to combined them, so just work with me. Today is the anniversary of JMJ's death. Run DMC is one of my all time favorite groups. NUFF Said!

EPMD is my all time favorite duo. Yes, better than Pete Rock and CL Smooth, yes better than OutKast and YES better that Kid N Play! YEP I said it, Kid N Play.

Jigga Man is coming to Baltimore and all the tickets were gone before they even got here. I thought I had some pull in this town ,but even my ace in the hole hit me with the Flava-Flav..."I cant do nuffin for you man"

Till they do right by those INDIANS!!

The Washington Redskins got crushed by the Pats last night. It was terrible and being a diehard Skins fan, I turned the cell phone off around half-time.

My homie Mark swears that "til they do right by dem Indians everything they touch gone fail." Maybe he's right, I never really thought about the name because it dosent really affect me personally. Is it racist or am I turning into Jesse Sharpton? How would I feel if a team was called the Nantucket Negroes?

Katrina VS San Diego Wildfires

"See what had happened was" Katrina hit unexpectedly, but we learned from our mistakes so when it happened in Cali we were prepared. Some of you might think this is a black or white thing or an affluent vs lower class thing but you dead wrong. Right Abdul?

Lucky Dube - Back To My Roots (Live)

I got a call from the wifey this morning about Lucky Dube's death. I went on-line and realized that he was way more than just a reggae artist. He was the African Ambassador. A pioneer whose unique sound and righteousness won fans worldwide. Similar to one of my favorites, the late great, Peter Tosh, he was a victim of senseless violence that takes the lives of my brothers on a daily basis. This true DREAD will be missed. "LUCKY today, LUCKY tomorrow, LUCKY FOREVER!" JAH BLESS, his widow, children and fans. In a sign of solidarity and sadness, all are encouraged to light a candle and participate in a moment of silence on Wednesday, October 24th, in remembrance of Lucky Dube, (1964 - 2007). My boy Abdul dedicated his on-line radio show to Lucky, check it out.

http://mightyminnow.wordpress.com/2007/10/22/new-radio-show-october-22-2007/

Nobel Peace Prize winner? Are you serious?

Nobel winner in 'racist' claim row - CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2007/TECH/science/10/25/watson.resigns/index.html


Less work on the DNA double helix and more work on the common sense gene. This guy might as well have said black people are "nappy headed ho's" oh wait somebody else already said that one, or maybe,look at black peoples hips and thighs,they are bread differently, oops that one was used also. Who's more intelligent now Dr. James Watson?

Poison Peaches and Bad checks

My little cousin dosent like poisoined peaches and I wrote a bad check. Im sure she didnt know the peaches were poisoined just as I didnt know the check was gonna bounce. Maybe you put her back on the bottle and I stick to money orders and everything is cool.

Say It Aint SOOOOO!!

http://msn.foxsports.com/olympics/story/7298242?MSNHPHMA

http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2007/more/10/08/jonesmedals.ap/index.html?cnn=yes

I think I knew deep down inside that Marion Jones was guilty, but she is in my top 5. I held out as much hope as possible, even when her husband tested positive, I was like thats on him. Even when Victor Contee (Balco Labs) was like she definatly used "The Clear", I was like Hes lying. Even when she tested positive but somehow beat the case, I was like "told you so".

Is it me or are our black athletes going through it right now, I dont even have enough energy to start naming names. Come on Barry,dont let me down.

Who really wants beef with a Monk man?

"we can handle this like gentlemen or we can handle this like gangsters?"

How can anybody have beef with a Monk? Maybe Im tripping but I thought they were the most peacefull people ever? Well us Monk Men gotta stick together, somebody find me my passport!

Myanmar government warns monks - CNN.com#cnnSTCPhoto#cnnSTCPhoto*

The Juice is Loose

If that's OJ's S&%T, they must acquit!!

I still like the Juice and I still think he is innocent. If some shady dudes had my stuff, I would want it back also. I would probably have gone about it a tad bit differently but hey, I'm just Scootermonk. After much debate, we have officially welcomed OJ into our illustrious club. Its not as easy as one might suspect (no pun intended) to become a card carrying member of the grown men with childhood nicknames club. Welcome Orenthal James!

Black Man BEWARE!!!

UHHH OHHH - Baltimore might finally be on to something here. Just think about it, who knows a blackman better than a blackwoman? Lets face it, the blackman is driving black on black crime through the roof, the blackman is driving the murder rate out of control, the blackman isnt putting said "foot" in blackboys said "behind" when they mess up in school. If Mayor Dixon is anything like my mother or the mothers of most of my friends then B-More will be in shape in no-time. It has been my experience that the people who know how to push the buttons that get me back on point the most are my mother, my mother and my mother.

Who better than this crew to whip this African American city into shape. They can be compassionate as well as no nonsence. As far as all the Nelly Naysayers out there...Blackwomen have been dealing with you for generations.

Jena Six

http://www.colorofchange.org/jena/

http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/opinion/324177_amygoodman19.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=za4B4KhIVTE

RALLY THE TROOPS ON JENA!!!

Hold on, this was a school fight right? I mean how many school fights have I been in? How many have you been in? How many times have you run outside after school to see a fight? How mad would I be if there was a noose hanging from a tree at Gaithersburg High? If there was one hanging, I guarantee that after the Friday night football game ,in the McDonalds parking lot, it would have been on like popcorn!

So everytime someone tells me they dont believe in Affirmative Action and black folks are always crying about being treated unfairly and slavery was over 400 years ago and we need to get over it and stop asking for hand-outs, I will refer them to the Jena Six, I will refer them to Amadu Diallo, I will refer them to Abna Luima, I will refer them to any Katrina victim,I will refer them to any blackman over the age of 60, then I will refer them to the McDonalds Parking lot on a Friday night!

Whats happening

Its been said that I bear a striking resemblance to Rog but aside from all that, this was one of the best episodes ever in life!! Is it me or does she look like Romie Rome from Martin Lawrence?

Chocolate Rain

wow...

50 Cent - I Get Money [HDTV][Music Video]

Funkmaster Flex was on point when he said that 50 Cent’s "I Get Money" is the hardest record out. The end-of-the-Summer banger had everyone from dope boys on the corner to writer’s looking to get their name in their favorite magazine plotting on ways to get that cake. Its a thin line between confidence and cockyness but add that with a banging ass beat that sampled Audio Two’s Top Billin’ track. The repeated, yet built in hook made this song extra hot and made it a certified East Coast/New York heat rock. Props to real Hip-Hop

First the Fat Boys break up...now this??

http://www.tmz.com/2007/08/22/ill-no-mo-foxy-brown-is-headed-to-the-slammer/

Why they gotta mess with the Ill Na-Na?

The Sheppard sisters need to go to jail for this sketch!

Free Foxy B.

SCOOTER RIZUTTO...Holy Cow!!

Phil"Scooter"Rizutto

Whatchoo know about us grown-ass men with childhood nicknames!!

Big ups to Phil. If you are around my age and you love sports then you used to listen to your granpop (see post below) talk about this guy. He was in the hall of fame for being a great shortstop.

So far we have Scooter Libby, Scooter Rizutto and Scooter Monk, I might be on to something here...

http://www.wnyc.org/news/articles/83941

Lets take it back to the ol skool

Whats going on people! I was gone for a minute but now I'm back with the Jump Off.

Now this is old school. Notice how I spelled old school, respect your elders. Yes sir, no ma'am.

I guarantee their wasn't any hip-hop coming out of that radio and yes, that's my grandfather with the orange, white and gray get up! I see where I got my style from!

Broken Blurbs

The last time I went to a "poetry Slam" , I felt like slamming brother Wisdom Supreme on his neck. Im not a violent dude by any stretch but for some reason these people erk me to no end. Are you really that deep my brother. And yes, I like my hator-aid with alot of sugar.

The last time I checked ,Weed is still illegal right?

http://www.baltimoresun.com/entertainment/news/bal-artslife-rappers0723,0,5637579.story

Let me start by saying I dont have anything against weed smokers......some of my best friends are weed smokers!! HAHA..but seriously of all the weed smokers I know, just because they think the government is corrupt and or crooked, this gives them a pass to smoke weed anytime and anywhere..when I remind them that weed is definatley illegal, I get looks like Im a snitch about to be put in the "vacants", then I get the excuse that weed is from the earth so how can they make it illegal?,"when I smoke im just chill, I dont bother nobody" and my favorite on of all "the gob'ment just want to control it so they can have all the money" Ill be the first one to say these are probably all valid reasons why it should be legal but the fact still remains........Its illegal. its not illegal like J-walking or littering, its illegal like drunk driving or maybe petty assault.....but who am I, I can drink some brews with the best of them and can tell you ive been in much worse shape at the end of the night them my weed smoking brothers......but my liver gets damaged legally.........

AWWW man I gotta actually do some work!!!!!

I was desperate for a job and I went on the interview and I looked them in the eye and promised that I would work hard and dedicate the full eight hours. I assured them that they would be making a mistake if they didnt hire me. I had the charm turned up to 100 and told them I would be a very valuable asset to the team...........now they expect me to work???? WTF! I havent been able to devote the attention I need to to my Blog, www.theycallmescootermonk-goodevening.blogspot.com . But no worries, ill be back with a vengence........

Montreal "EH"

Platnium Status (Thanks RodStar), Drinks that flowed like the river Nile (Thanks ST3). I would also like to thank(the shady guy) who let us borrow his backpack, the (concierge) dude who at least tried and last but never least...club Super Contact!!

Now that I got the shout outs done, Montreal is the cleanest, no crime havinest, people friendliest place Ive ever been. The Parade was great, the music was good and the food was cool. OK work calls so more to come.....

Are they Friggin serious?

I dont even know where to begin........
Shunned from society, widows flock to city to die - CNN.com*

Scooter Silently Skates....Surprised?

Today is a good day for my boy Scooter - He didnt tell on his boys and if I have to take on for the team, im glad the president is on it!

Thats how us Scooters roll!! We have friends in high places...no pun intended
Bush commutes Libby's prison sentence - CNN.com*

Big Pimpin

Why is it that my boss always comes around when im on the phone with misc non-work people...so he's trying to play it off like he's not listening...im trying to play it off like im not in the climax of a story and obviously this goes on worldwide because whoever im talking to immedialey notices the change in tone/pitch/and or general excitement in my voice..I go form Kunta Kinte to Toby in a nanosec....I need to be my own boss so I can come out of my cave and hover around the lower etchelon of society and crack corny jokes and have all my underlings laughing histerically. I always said I would be the coolest boss but then again I always said I would be the coolest dad , but im sure the little one would beg to differ......2 more hours pickin corporate cotton and staying out of massa's way then im going home to eat some chittlings (baked chicken) and some hamhocks(brown rice) and water( cold beer) Peace to all my field NEGRO's especially the ones with childhood nicknames.....

Chitlin Circut

So its friday night and its a non - pay week and im in money conservation mode but at the same time I still want to go out.To be a truly effective party-goer on the chitlin circut one must act the part! Basketball is done and football hasnt started. Barry's not playing tonight and the streets are calling. Option numero uno is to go into the bat closet and pull out some spectacular get-up thats sure to shut the game down but as Peter Parker the Spectacular said " With great power comes great responsibility!"To be a truly effective party-goer on the chitlin circut one must act the part! Option numero dos is to keep the khaki shorts, T-Shirt and flip-flops on and and head to Canton for cheap drinks. The only problem with numero uno is that Ill promise myself im only going to take x amounts of loot out of the atm and swear "foe" GOD that Ill make due with some random predetermined amount which is sort of like a self imposed punishment for even allowing myself to delve into such pleasures. I justify this by saying to self" I need to be with my black people doing big things and enjoying observing and also being observed." To be a truly effective party-goer on the chitlin circut one must act the part! Once the drinks start flowing and the observer gets more confident and the swag gets "mo swaggier"...its a thin line between confidence and cockyness (sp?) and since Im sipping on the finest top shelf of whatever the current flavor is now, the line has been crossed and of course Im digging deep into the pockets and coming up with nothing but lint. To be a truly effective party-goer on the chitlin circut one must act the part! ....more to come.....

Iamalwaysrightandyouarealwayswrong

Buy everybody in the hood an Air Conditioner and ban the sale of Malt Liquor on payday.

Closure

I just had closure with the EX and I feel so much better - I tend to just dismiss things and not worry about them sorta like brushing my shoulder off ,but this time it wasnt as easy as Mr. Mellowsmoothnonchalant thought it would be. Why was this nagging me? WHY WAS THIS NAGGING ME? It kinda funny that my boys Ego and Pride were no where to be found. These are my dogs when things get rough when something or someone tries to breach the perimeter, when its real in the field I always know I can count on them but now those punks were gone. Probably tired of rolling with me for so long. I had them up for about two months straight, they not messing with me right now - I had them on a short leash - on call 24/7 never know when you might need your boys to bail you out of some ish. The more I think about it the more convinced I am that maybe they had an alterior motive for my relationship with anything or anybody else trying to invade our tight knit family unit. I guess they are feed up with me always calling them..but wait ,I dont call them they just always know when one member of the awesome threesome is in trouble .....